Live and Let Live

When I first divorced, everyone had advice for me on what to do and what not to do. So many of my friends had their own 2 cents worth as to exactly what I needed to do or not to do. It was out of love no doubt. But Here is my 2 cents worth. In the 43 years of my life, I've been thru a lot of great things and a lot of bad things, but not one thing I've been through makes me an expert on what someone else should do or not do. Everyone single one of us is entitled to live our life as we live it. Mistakes are lessons. It isn't my place or anyone's place to tell another person how he or she should live their life. The people who truly helped me and showed me ways to look deeper at myself were simply the people who shared their own experiences with me. Not one person can wear your shoes unless they have walked in them. It's easy to tell someone what you think they should do. It's wiser to just love people where they are and life your life and let them live theirs. Today I simply share my experiences,  and you will never catch me telling another human being to do or not to do something. And u sure won't catch me degrading anyone for Their choices. A lot of the bad choices I've made ended up changing my life. So I challenge all of you today To just live and let live!


  • Lisa

    I love what you wrote. The world would be a better place if everyone felt and expressed these feelings. You are so strong and courageous and I’m grateful for the times I’ve had with you… You are inspiring.

  • ALice

    I agree with this and couldn’t have said this better myself. I feel when you go through divorce or anything unpleasant in a small town we are judged and very harshly at that. It’s so sad to be judged at a time that you need supporter most too! Thanks for having the guts to put this out and I respect you so much for writing this.

  • JIll Gatlin

    Yes! Yes! Yes!

  • Traci Brown

    I love you girl !! Always inspiring me!!!?

  • Stephanie

    Such a wonderful reminder for us all❤️

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