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Fishing for Musky

I recently met someone who fishes for Musky, and I had never heard of this rare beautiful fish found in creeks in certain areas. When I saw the pictures of him and his buddy holding up the large unique prize I could easily understand why one might fish all day hoping just to snag one. I asked him if they ever kept them or ate them. The answer was oh no. We take a picture then throw them back. He even went as far as to say they cringe when they see people keep them.    I have often  heard people compare  dating to fishing and this whole Musky sport is dating in a nutshell. You see we as women...

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The Solution

I had a young lady come into my store yesterday who needed to talk. For some reason, it seems as if I have a sign on my forehead that says.. tell me your problems. Its been that way for as long as I can remember. As a young child, Maddox asked me once, “why do people Always tell you  their life stories Mom?”  I really  can’t answer that question, maybe some of you could. But, I do know that if someone feels like they can share part of their world with me, I’m going to listen and offer what hope, experience or encouragement I can. So this young lady is newly divorced and Trying her best to come back to what...

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Believe

As the Christmas season comes to a close and the decorations come down. I’ve decided to keep my believe sign on my mantle through the year.  If I had to choose some of my favorite words, BELiEVE would most  definitely be at the top of the list. I believe that coincidences don’t exist and that mistakes are lessons. I believe that we get it wrong to learn how to get it right. I believe that everything happens for a reason be it good, bad, happy, or sad. I also Believe  that happiness is a choice we make daily. I honestly use to let my circumstances dominate my days.  I was actually that person that use to think that other people, places, or...

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Needing to Know

Have you ever been ghosted? Have you even been dumped or cheated on with zero explanation? Better yet, have you ever had someone do something that hurt you very much and they simply can’t or won’t tell you why? More than likely, one or all of the  above have happened to you or a close friend.  I can’t tell you how many times I have heard someone say to me, “I just need Some closure.” I’ve said it many times myself, but here is what I know. If someone isn’t the kind of person that gives you closure then that is really all you need to know and trying to figure out why or how they did what they did...

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Armor Up

I have chosen a new name for my blog and I am calling it The best of YOU theory. I have read all sorts of self help books, the latest dating advice blogs, and I’ve even read things that  claim to help you get Mr. Right to fall in love with you. I have learned a lot through such material, and it is  always entertaining. But here is the real deal, When I do meet Mr. Right I want him to meet the best me I can be. Why is this? Well because if I am the best me I can be, then I will attract someone else who is the best he he can be. Not to mention, I...

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