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Dating Mindset

If you have decided to venture out into the dating app world, then there is a certain mindset one needs to acquire before you throw your profile out for all the vultures to see. First of all, be sure you are healed! If you have recently gone through a divorce or a break up, then hold up my friend. Give yourself some time to get over it. Be sure you are not looking for someone to cure your broken heart! That is your job and it can and will lead you into the wrong arms nine times out of ten.  If you are good to go there, then please do not take this stuff too seriously. Ladies and gentleman, a...

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Seasons

Throughout my life I have always had a hard time letting go of things. It's very appropriate the verse refers to seasons. I am the girl who loves summer. I hate to see it go and I can't wait for it to come back again. I honestly use to begin laying out in February to get a jump start on my summer tan. At least I had faithful friends like Amy who would suffer the cold with me for a little color. The point here is that seasons are going to change whether I like it or not. I have no control over this. Recently I have thought a lot about past friendships that are no longer the same. It's...

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Inside Out

I was in Birmingham this past weekend and drove  by the first house I purchased. At that time, I thought my  life was going according to plan and I had it all right. I was living in the “right” zip code in  a desirable neighborhood with sidewalks and no lie we even had a white picket fence with a Mercedes in the driveway.  We looked like the perfect family on the outside however things are rarely  how they seem. Inside we were a mess. This really got me thinking about the difference in outsides and insides! Today I strive to make my insides match my outsides, and at that time in my life I was striving for my insides to...

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Tainted LOVE

One of my college sorority sisters favorite all time 80s song is TAinted Love! Some of our most fun moments were awaiting Mel and The Party Hats to play that one, and when it finally made the set list, we danced our hearts off as we sang every word. I still dance around the car or house every time  I hear it, and I always imagine Amy and her moves as if she’s right there dancing with me! Sometimes I even record myself and snap it to her! As many of you know, I have been on the dating apps and I have decided that song appropriately describes the the way of the app world in my eyes. First of...

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Keeping it Simple

A good friend of mine has often said to me, “Nothing worth having is easy.” Well, the more life I live, the more battles and victories I face, I find this to be a true statement.  One might say that easy and simple are synonymous, but I agree to disagree. In my experiences, something can be simple, but not necessarily easy. The good news here is all the things I believe are worth having are actually simple in a sense,  but that doesn’t mean it’s going to be easy to maintain or acquire them. THe right things or the right people are not always easy. In today’s world there is a lot of “low hanging fruit” and that is the...

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