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Needing to Know

Have you ever been ghosted? Have you even been dumped or cheated on with zero explanation? Better yet, have you ever had someone do something that hurt you very much and they simply can’t or won’t tell you why? More than likely, one or all of the  above have happened to you or a close friend.  I can’t tell you how many times I have heard someone say to me, “I just need Some closure.” I’ve said it many times myself, but here is what I know. If someone isn’t the kind of person that gives you closure then that is really all you need to know and trying to figure out why or how they did what they did...

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Armor Up

I have chosen a new name for my blog and I am calling it The best of YOU theory. I have read all sorts of self help books, the latest dating advice blogs, and I’ve even read things that  claim to help you get Mr. Right to fall in love with you. I have learned a lot through such material, and it is  always entertaining. But here is the real deal, When I do meet Mr. Right I want him to meet the best me I can be. Why is this? Well because if I am the best me I can be, then I will attract someone else who is the best he he can be. Not to mention, I...

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Dating Mindset

If you have decided to venture out into the dating app world, then there is a certain mindset one needs to acquire before you throw your profile out for all the vultures to see. First of all, be sure you are healed! If you have recently gone through a divorce or a break up, then hold up my friend. Give yourself some time to get over it. Be sure you are not looking for someone to cure your broken heart! That is your job and it can and will lead you into the wrong arms nine times out of ten.  If you are good to go there, then please do not take this stuff too seriously. Ladies and gentleman, a...

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Seasons

Throughout my life I have always had a hard time letting go of things. It's very appropriate the verse refers to seasons. I am the girl who loves summer. I hate to see it go and I can't wait for it to come back again. I honestly use to begin laying out in February to get a jump start on my summer tan. At least I had faithful friends like Amy who would suffer the cold with me for a little color. The point here is that seasons are going to change whether I like it or not. I have no control over this. Recently I have thought a lot about past friendships that are no longer the same. It's...

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Inside Out

I was in Birmingham this past weekend and drove  by the first house I purchased. At that time, I thought my  life was going according to plan and I had it all right. I was living in the “right” zip code in  a desirable neighborhood with sidewalks and no lie we even had a white picket fence with a Mercedes in the driveway.  We looked like the perfect family on the outside however things are rarely  how they seem. Inside we were a mess. This really got me thinking about the difference in outsides and insides! Today I strive to make my insides match my outsides, and at that time in my life I was striving for my insides to...

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